Comments on: What Are You Thankful For This Year With Regards To Your Adoption Journey?

By: scorpio_

scorpio_ — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 22:52:39 +0000

ihave known my birth parent’s for 8 years.it has not always been easy getting to know them,especially my father.he seemed excited to find out about me,but then lost interest very quickly!.i was doing all the work to keep us in a relationship and that made me very emotional and hurt.i figured he had seen what he wanted to see and moved on.onc ei accepted that,i stopped calling,sending cards,etc.2 years passed by and he suddenely started mailing pictures of his 2 daughters(who btw are the ONLY people in my life who look like me!) and sending emails,etc. i am glad he realised that i can be in his life without spoiling it for him,lol.i am hoping 2008 will help us finally become freinds without him feeling awkward .buthe has to work hard if he wants me in his life,as i spent all those years trying,then moved on.it would be nice because really even though i get along well with my birth mother,my father is the only black person in the picture (causcasian adoptive family and birth mother!) and to have a relationship with him finally,and learn of my roots and heritage would really help me grow and develop in that area .

By: J D

J D — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 21:26:44 +0000

Every single day I am still thankful for the strength the birthmothers of my 2 beautiful adopted boys had (2 & 5yrs). They completed our family.

By: LaurieDB

LaurieDB — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 18:03:03 +0000

I am thankful to have found so many more people who talk openly about adoption experiences. I’m thankful for the continued wonderful reunion with my ndad and family. I am also thankful for my growing forgiveness toward my adad. That is something I know is coming from my God, and it is bringing me more peace.

By: Taylor

Taylor — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 16:34:21 +0000

I’m thankful that soon I will be able to see the daughter I had to give up[ 10 years ago. Her name is Alexis, or Lexi as some call her. She is a beautiful girl now and has a nice caring adoptive family with a adoptive mother, adoptive dad and she has an older sister that was also adopted.
I am also thankful for that I was able to be put on 3 adoption agencies lists, so I can help children like Alexis. I had Alexis at 18 and couldn’t care for her, but now I have 3 young children 3 and under and am looking forward for the day I can welcome another child into my life.
I also just want to say God Bless everyone that asks and answers questions on this section of Y!A. Not just in adoption, but all of Pregnancy and Parenting.
Happy New Year to all and God Bless!

By: Southern Comfort

Southern Comfort — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:47:44 +0000

I’m thankful for this forum! I am more thankful that after 2 yrs. of reunion with my son he still calls every week or 10 days. That he has spent a week with his siblings and knows they always knew about him and were to continue looking for him if I passed before finding him. I’m thankful for the relationship I have with his adopted parents. He sent me a digital picture frame and included their picture too. He and I spend two weeks every July together and I plan on going to spend a week or two this spring with him.
I am most thankful he got health info he needed and has undergone a good physical as his bdad died just a few months before I found my son. Heart disease runs in the paternal side.
I pray for all others looking for answers.

By: janimal

janimal — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 09:29:25 +0000

I am thankful that I have an agency to work with that I trust. Turns out that a fellow board member of a charity where I volunteer works at the agency, and I am grateful for the education about adoption I have gotten to be able to work on the best possible situation. I am grateful to have learned and become comfortable with open adoption. I am grateful for the knowledge that I will be a parent. And I am so grateful for my lovely husband and his support through our journey.

By: amyburt4

amyburt4 — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 09:04:40 +0000

I am thankful for the support that I have received from all sides of this adoption plane. I am thankful for the many wonderful natural mothers who are not afraid to speak out. I am thankful for the adoptive parents who seek to make changes in the infant adoption industry and foster adoption . I am thankful for the adoptees who speak as loudly as I do. Even though my journey has been a painful one, I am thankful for the love and support of those walking beside me.

By: medge97

medge97 — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:33:05 +0000

I am thankful that I found people that know what I am going thru…my life turned upside down after I found my mother, I didnt know how to deal with it all. It was really a big help to hear stories of other adoptees and birthmothers. Mostly I am thankful for the missing pieces to my life’s puzzle being put into place by my b mother

By: rachael

rachael — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:37:32 +0000

such an easy question for me. i found my bio father a couple of months ago. it was the most nerve wracking, scary experience of my life. and i got myself all worked up over nothing. he was happy and receptive. it was love right from the get go.
i am such a lucky woman when it comes to anything with my adoption. my birthmother is my best friend (love ya Lori A!!!) my biofather is fantastic, and most of his family is willing to give me half a chance.
my sister has come around and wants to meet both my bio parents and i just feel so much peace about all of this. i wish it could have been sooner, but im not complaining. i have them now and i intend to make the most of it.

By: Adoption

Adoption — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 18:49:49 +0000

I am thankful that I can afford therapy to unravel the years of pain, and that the suicidal longing has gone away