Many times when someone asks a question about adopting or placing their child for adoption there are a lot of answers that say how wonderful and selfless the person is.
Why do people think adoption is so great?
If you think it is great, what is your connection to adoption?

I have an almost 8 month old baby girl and I would like to know what is most important in parenting

I have been here since June when I came to ask a question about searching for my bio-mother.
The most important thing I learned:
Adoption is not as easy as getting “the baby,” and alot of people do not think enough about its impact.