Also does the parent who wants to put the child up for adoption still have to pay child support?

Do children really live a horrible life in adoption homes? Are adoption centers crowded? and what happens to children if they are not adopted? do they still receive an adequate amount of education? and can a child succeed in life without being adopted? Generally, How is adoption?

I am being transferred out of state and I currently have 2 small children , ( 4,6) . We are divorced with shared parenting agreement. Will we need to go to court to give her full custody or if we agree will nothing be done?? Anyone have a similar scenario? Thanks