I’ve met a few fathers over the years who have serious sadness about losing a child to adoption, but usually it’s mothers who read and post on sites such as this. Wondering why that is?

I am being transferred out of state and I currently have 2 small children , ( 4,6) . We are divorced with shared parenting agreement. Will we need to go to court to give her full custody or if we agree will nothing be done?? Anyone have a similar scenario? Thanks