I have a friend who is about 100 pounds overweight and people at work are gossiping that her pregnancy is considered high risk and say she will have to have a C-Section just because of the weight but I never heard her or anyone in her family say that. Is that true or just dumb gossip? How should I respond when they say something like that?

Ok I get the hole not telling the adopted child they are adopted, I am in favor of not amending OBC (Original birth certificate0, and just getting an adoption certificate, I am have even changed my opinion on closed adoptions, in fav of enforcing open adoption.
However i don’t get why so many of you say it is selfish to adopt. People don’t give birth thinking about the kids needs. They have kids because they want kids. Some people can’t so they adopt. .